"We are human, and we are all can be wrong!" - Is it a statement that you also believe in or see as an excuse used by people who want to justify deviations from moral norms? Many relationships end with the disappearance of love, harmony, and understanding between partners, but this can also happen because one is more wrong. Some deeds and gestures are unforgivable, and separation occurs when a person can no longer tolerate the behavior or gestures of his half.
Women and men think differently, and it is normal for slight differences to arise from time to time. These become a problem when they are repeated and turn into more significant quarrels, in which violence or disrespect occurs. Today we will analyze the ten most significant mistakes a man makes in relationships that not many women can overcome. It is not about cheating, lying, or other such actions.
Find out below which signals some people don't even perceive as mistakes:
1. He is Not involved
Presence is the greatest gift you can give to those around you. She stands by him because she wants to enjoy every moment together and feel that he is also involved. He comes home with a bouquet in vain, but he sits on the couch to watch the match and ignores it all evening. It is useless to buy her jewelry if she does not look at it with admiration when she wears it. A man should be determined, show interest every second, and make her feel appreciated, wanted, and loved. Material things mean absolutely nothing, primarily when simple and small gestures do not support big words thrown in the wind.
2. Conquer the woman but do not understand her
Many males forget that females are complex creatures and can have a lot of states, which change from minute to minute. They rush to please them in the first days and then forget to pay attention to them, listen to them, and be with them in the difficult moments. The most painful thing for a woman is when she realizes that it was just a trophy for her partner, who no longer raises a finger to maintain the relationship. It is a colossal mistake and comes from a man who has no respect for his partner, treating her like an object.
3. He feels intimidated by his partner
A man who always wants to be in control can feel intimidated by a strong and intelligent woman. When he doesn't know how to control her, he loses himself in front of her, feeling inferior and even frustrated. If he does not accept the principle of equality between partners, that relationship will never reach a point of equilibrium, and both will behave like "mouse and cat." In vain, does the woman try to balance the balance if he wants to lower it in his favor? No one should be superior to anyone; anyone who wants to be more than half should feel intimidated by it.
4. Consider that other things are more important than the woman next door
The balance in the relationship is also provided by the degree of attention the partners pay to each other. When a man begins to forget about their birthday or other important moments, frustration will set in in the woman's soul, and conflicts will arise between them. On the other hand, if he tried to keep track of all the things that mattered to his girlfriend/wife, he would not neglect them to the detriment of other activities.
Football or beer with the boys can still wait, especially if the calendar date indicates the day of the engagement or the first kiss. Welded couples know how to put their priorities in order, and men who love know that they should not put their partner in second place.
5. He is not paying attention to her feelings
Neglecting feelings is a severe mistake, and no woman can forgive her boyfriend/husband if she sees that she is not empathetic and does not support her in difficult times. The man must learn to listen, know what to say at the right time, and never ignore the woman's needs next to him. If she is not aware of the storm of emotions that is born in her soul every day, she can say goodbye to the relationship because it can end sooner than it started. The pain in a person's heart intensifies if he does not receive attention from his loved ones.
6. It does not show that it can be trusted or has broken the existing trust
Confidence is hard to come by at first, but it will be even harder to regain once it is shattered. Cheating, betrayal, and lying are the main actions that can destroy the feeling of security that two people who love each other have in each other's presence. If a man resorts to the above facts, it will be challenging for a woman to believe in his sincerity, feel protected in his arms, and dream of a future together. She waits for dedication and proof of love and does not want to see that her soul mate treats her inappropriately.
7. It is too sticky and makes her feel insecure
No girl in this world will feel good next to her partner if she suddenly approaches her. Physical pleasure must be felt much later after the confidence has been gained and the feelings have begun to grow. Many men are in a hurry and pressure the women in their lives; they want to burn certain stages at all costs and go straight to the bedroom.
Any self-respecting lady will immediately question this "hurry" and try to keep her distance from the impatient. But unfortunately, not everyone can throw themselves into the arms of a stranger like that, especially when they want a serious relationship.
8. He is selfish or narcissistic
When you want to share the rest of your life with someone else, you understand that from that moment on, it will not just be about you, that "your life" becomes "your life," and that you will share the good and the bad. Unfortunately, many are unaware of this (we are talking again about those who disagree with equality between partners) and see themselves above the women sitting next to them.
This category includes narcissists and selfish people - they never think about the women next to them; they want to be good only to themselves and be recognized for the qualities man have or feel they have. When a person thinks that way, he satisfies his own needs and ignores those of the person next to him.
9. He does not recognize the value she adds to his life
Women bring peace and chaos into a man's life, so ladies are essential, and every male needs them to live his life more intensely. However, some men never admit that they need them and say they would live just as happy and alone.
True happiness is when you put your head on the pillow and to your left or right, you have a partner to tell you how you feel and your expectations for the next period. Such a reassuring discussion is everything, and anyone can understand the woman's value - she is support and relief in difficult times. Without caressing his mother, hugging his sister, his grandmother, and kissing his wife, a man would feel safe and insecure. On the contrary, they give him confidence and strength to move on, so it would be wrong to deny this.
10. He doesn't know what he wants from life
No woman could bear to learn that she wasted her time with a kid who has no idea what he wants from life. So they move away when they notice that their partner is undecided, often changes their mind, and does not have a clear perception of a future together. Only the man who has reached a certain level of maturity knows how to keep his chosen one. The others are still immature and have to go through many trials of life to realize that lack of determination is a mistake that makes them all alone.